It’s important to let your kids make mistakes — to learn and grow from them. Check out this Kids in the House video for more on this topic.
Author: Christine Carter
Friday Inspiration: The Science of Character
Fascinating (very short) film on the science of character. Building on strengths can have a lasting effect on our happiness and well-being.
Thursday Thought
Every event is the right one. Look closely and you’ll see.”
— Marcus Aureliuss

Happiness Tip: Ground Yourself
You might know that your TV needs to be grounded electrically to get a clear picture, but did you know that your body also needs to be grounded for optimal health?
There is some amazing research that suggests that not having direct contact with the earth’s surface electrons — in other words, not being grounded electrically — is associated with nervous system imbalances, immune system issues, chronic pain, endocrine disorders, sleep problems, and much more.
A few studies show a fairly dramatic improvement in health and pain levels –including things that profoundly affect our happiness, like the way our nervous system is activated and our stress hormone levels — just from sleeping on a grounded mat, or from standing barefoot on the earth. This review article in the Journal of Environmental and Public Health explains one such benefit:
Reduction in inflammation as a result of earthing [or grounding] has been documented with infrared medical imaging and with measurements of blood chemistry and white blood cell counts. The logical explanation for the anti-inflammatory effects is that grounding the body allows negatively charged antioxidant electrons from the Earth to enter the body and neutralize positively charged free radicals at sites of inflammation. Flow of electrons from the Earth to the body has been documented.
Humans used to walk barefoot in their homes’ dirt floors and sleep on the ground. Needless to say, we no longer live in a “grounded” environment: we wear rubber shoes, and often live several stories above ground.
I love free medicine, and that is what this is. Although we can purchase grounding mats for use indoors, we can also just get outside this summer: research shows that walking barefoot for 30-40 minutes works well.
Take action: Ground yourself this week by working in the garden, walking barefoot, or sleeping on an “earthing” bed sheet (or on the ground!).
Join the Discussion: Does this technique work for you? Do you feel happier and healthier after you’ve been walking around barefoot on the earth? Share your thoughts in the comments.
Friday Inspiration: Stroke of Insight
I first saw this stunning TED talk at least 5 years ago (maybe more) but I still think about it all the time! Worth a 2nd (or 3rd) watch.
Thursday Thought
I’m proud to pay taxes in the United States; the only thing is, I could be just as proud for half the money.”
– Arthur Godrey
Motivating your kids with bribes (or threats)?
“If you empty the dishwasher right now, I’ll give you a dollar.” Does this sound familiar? We’ve all done it: offered our kids little bribes — and maybe even threatened to take away privileges — to get them to do what we’ve asked. Here’s why we might not want to do this, even if it works.
Coach Your Kids to Emotional Literacy
Studies show that kids who are emotion coached experience fewer negative emotions and recover more quickly when they are upset.
Register for our Raise Kids’ Emotional Intelligence online class to learn what do do when children have emotional outbursts and how to tap into kids’ self-motivation to do boring but necessary tasks.
- Learn why bribes, threats and rewards tend to backfire in the long-run — and why they undermine kids’ creativity and problem solving skills.
- Learn strategies for tapping into kids’ self-motivation, even for boring household chores. Self-motivated kids are more successful, perceive themselves to be more competent, and are less anxiety prone.
This online class (theme Four from the Raising Happiness Homestudy) includes five video classes, online discussion groups, weekly practices, and the opportunity to receive online coaching with Dr. Christine Carter. Learn more here.
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Raising Happiness is a licensed CEU provider by the California Board of Behavioral Sciences. Our license number is PCE 5355. Learn more here.
Friday Inspiration: The Gap
Great piece about overcoming failure in your creative endeavors and trusting your instincts.
Thursday Thought
The opposite of anger is not calmness, it’s empathy.”
— Mehmet Oz